Wow....you'd already done full swap with this couple, and
still got this extreme level of drama from them. Very odd!
It seems like the only real difference was that it was separate room the first time, and this time it was going to be in the same room.
The only real clue you got was his comment about you (Jeff):
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Originally Posted by nice_cpl_n_bama He had told her, "I know you really want Jeff, so go ahead." She took him literally. He told her afterward that he was being sarcastic. |
Maybe (just guessing), while you all went separately that first time, he was driving himself crazy thinking about his wife alone with you in that other room. Perhaps he had it all built up in his mind.
"What if he's better? What if he's bigger? What if my wife falls for him? etc. Maybe he's been having very mixed feelings about this whole swinging thing.....maybe dealing with jealousy and possibly feeling competitive with you, while at the same time being turned-on by swinging, too. Perhaps he's been keeping these mixed feelings mostly to himself, and they just all spilled out on your whole party.
Some men need to be "the only dick in the room" or they can't function (I've actually heard this term used as a reason a man couldn't same-room swap or have a threesome). Since they are newbies, perhaps he's just discovering for himself that he's one of these guys. Newbies have to discover their likes and dislikes one event at a time.
It could be any number of things, but it certainly wasn't your fault. If you get more details from them later, I'd love to hear what was really going on with him! I'm very curious!