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sereneiders · 03-24-2007, 06:31 PM

Is your spouse the better cooker? Is your spouse your best chess opponent? Is your spouse the best singer you know?....

Well, the list goes on and on and on, and you wouldn't expect to answer them all with a "yeah"... even when you may anuser some of them with a "yeah!" because it is the politically right question. However, if we were to give the politiaclly right answer this question, the poll resuld shoud be 100% for yes, 0% for no.

Perhaps it's worth to say that I don't expect to be the best lover ever for my wife. I know I am good, but I hope her to be able to meet better lovers than myself, for the sake of her pleasure! And also to say there are so many features involved that t doesn't make too much sense the term "better lover", i.e., some give better oral than others, some moves the hips better than others, some figure out the right words to say at the proper times, some are more passionate, some more imaginative... it's a huge list and I doubt someone would be able to score 10/10 for every item.

What really cares for me is my own list of features, where some of them has nothing to do with sex, and there are priorities or "weights" to put them in order (BTW, the sexual related ones aren't the most important ones), and the whole outcome cannot be beaten by anyone else in the world.

03-24-2007, 06:31 PM	#27 (permalink)
sereneiders Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,121 Location: Argentina Status: Couple	Re: Is your spouse your best lover? ever Is your spouse the better cooker? Is your spouse your best chess opponent? Is your spouse the best singer you know?.... Well, the list goes on and on and on, and you wouldn't expect to answer them all with a "yeah"... even when you may anuser some of them with a "yeah!" because it is the politically right question. However, if we were to give the politiaclly right answer this question, the poll resuld shoud be 100% for yes, 0% for no. Perhaps it's worth to say that I don't expect to be the best lover ever for my wife. I know I am good, but I hope her to be able to meet better lovers than myself, for the sake of her pleasure! And also to say there are so many features involved that t doesn't make too much sense the term "better lover", i.e., some give better oral than others, some moves the hips better than others, some figure out the right words to say at the proper times, some are more passionate, some more imaginative... it's a huge list and I doubt someone would be able to score 10/10 for every item. What really cares for me is my own list of features, where some of them has nothing to do with sex, and there are priorities or "weights" to put them in order (BTW, the sexual related ones aren't the most important ones), and the whole outcome cannot be beaten by anyone else in the world.