Thanks for your time to replay to this and let me tell you that both Sex_Slave and I are ready to go back for some more play time.
We are definately going to get that book that cluth recommended and see if that will help him, I am sure it will.
He is well over that feeling by now but I don't want him to feel like that again after a play because I get to feel kind of guilty for enjoying somehting too much and he feels that way.
I hope we don't stop the sifestyle at this particular time but if we have to we definately will, I don't want this in any way to put a toll on our relationship.
In a way, I wish our "religious instict" would not make us feel that way but it happens. And as for that little voice that iapr has pointed out, VERY TRUE!!! I felt like that at first but have learned to quiet this voice and let me live my life as I like to live it now.
He told me that he is ready to go back in a couple of weeks and we will get that book and see if that helps him after, if not we will have to talk about it more.