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Originally Posted by intuition897 There is SOOO much bullshit being slung around about swingers and the lifestyle and most of it is distorted fiction. |
Hi Intuition,
Sadly, I believe that a lot of what is slung around about swingers isn't fiction at all. From what I've observed, there are a number of swingers that I would classify as nothing less than pigs. Not us, of course! But like any large and diverse group, we are all different. We all conduct ourselves differently. Unfortunately, there is a significant number of people calling themselves swingers that are lacking in intelligence and good common sense, are irresponsible, indiscreet, drunkards, drama queens, liars, bad parents, and more.
Just as in any large population of people, the worst of the group are the most visible and usually get noticed more. I'll use my own region for an example. People stereotypically think of south Georgians as slow, inarticulate rednecks. I could make a great argument against that by talking about those of us who are not, but the fact is, there
are a lot of moronic rednecks in the region. It's probably not as much of the population down here as outsiders would think, but enough to give our region the reputation. I think it's
exactly the same in swinging.