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sexychoclit · 03-22-2007, 05:26 PM

I am not married, however I can admit that the guy I am seeing now isn't the best lover I have ever had. In the lifestyle I met a man who could keep up with me in the bedroom and during our 2+ years together I can barely count a moment when I didn't have an orgasm.

As far as my relationship goes, it is a good one, but as far as sex is concerned I find that he doesn't have the stamina that I do and that can be a problem for me. The good thing about my boyfriend is that he has previous experience in the lifestyle and he is willing to do what it takes to make me happy and of course I do the same for him. So at some point, I hope that he will become the best lover I have ever had.

I don't think that your wife should be jealous. Did you tell her who your best lover was and was that person in the lifestyle? If so, then I can see where her not being your best could cause a problem.

03-22-2007, 05:26 PM	#17 (permalink)
sexychoclit Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 75 Location: South Carolina Status: Single Female	Re: Is your spouse your best lover? ever I am not married, however I can admit that the guy I am seeing now isn't the best lover I have ever had. In the lifestyle I met a man who could keep up with me in the bedroom and during our 2+ years together I can barely count a moment when I didn't have an orgasm. As far as my relationship goes, it is a good one, but as far as sex is concerned I find that he doesn't have the stamina that I do and that can be a problem for me. The good thing about my boyfriend is that he has previous experience in the lifestyle and he is willing to do what it takes to make me happy and of course I do the same for him. So at some point, I hope that he will become the best lover I have ever had. I don't think that your wife should be jealous. Did you tell her who your best lover was and was that person in the lifestyle? If so, then I can see where her not being your best could cause a problem.