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**rpu3** · 03-22-2007, 08:59 AM

I answered yes, because my spouse is the one I love and am in love with, thus fitting the technical definition of lover. Besides, he seems to get me, and I get along well with him, etc., and that all comes into play in our sex life. We have a great sex life, and coupled with the other relationship goodies, it makes him my best lover.

That being said, he's a far better lover than my previous relationships, but I've had some great sex with a person or two since trying out the alternative lifestyles. Since it isn't in the "lover" realm, it's just a matter of "was it good sex or not?", not better or worse than my spouse.

03-22-2007, 08:59 AM	#4 (permalink)
rpu3 Doing it our way... Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 2,496 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female SLS Name:rpu3 Blog Entries: 2	Re: Is your spouse your best lover? ever I answered yes, because my spouse is the one I love and am in love with, thus fitting the technical definition of lover. Besides, he seems to get me, and I get along well with him, etc., and that all comes into play in our sex life. We have a great sex life, and coupled with the other relationship goodies, it makes him my best lover. That being said, he's a far better lover than my previous relationships, but I've had some great sex with a person or two since trying out the alternative lifestyles. Since it isn't in the "lover" realm, it's just a matter of "was it good sex or not?", not better or worse than my spouse. Last edited by rpu3 : 03-22-2007 at 09:11 AM.