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Originally Posted by Gladiola4u The funny thing about all this is that he is the one that brought the swinging suggestion up and is the one that got this way. |
For some reason this bit about we men bringing it up and not liking it happens kind of often.
I agree with the slow and easy part... if the religious part is an issue, there's a great book entitled
Divine Sex. It presents a pretty good Biblical case that God doesn't really have a problem with swinging. But He's definitely interested in us and very interested that we agree, as a couple, in whatever sexual preferences we determine. (If you get it new, it does take a couple of weeks to arrive, but very well worth the wait.)
I'd say talk through the situations, and, if you read the book, you'll find out that many of the biblical greats prayed before, during, and after their periods of extra marital sex. So pray about it, and enjoy it; be thankful for the variety.