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Currently, we're monogamous with another couple, so this isn't an issue.

However, I would never promote a relationship with a cheating husband or wife for practical reasons.

The first and greatest being the Second Amendment of the Constitution of the United States--namely the fact that U.S. Citizens have the right to bear arms. Fortunately, back in the day, we never had that middle of the night phone call with a shrieking spouse accusing us of a-whoring with his wife or husband with a lot of associated physical threats.

We did hear stories of others who had received such phone calls and vowed that they'd be more careful about who they shared a bed with.

We have had, back in the day, threesomes with married men or women who were in open relationships--ie their spouse would drop them off and kiss them goodbye for their "date." It wasn't for us, though. Our personal preference is couple/couple.

As far as actually, personally judging someone for cheating, I kind of lean toward "Let him without sin cast the first stone." Whether someone cheats or not is his/her business. I won't hate or condemn them for that. I just won't be the one they cheat with--again, because I value my life and health.