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Originally Posted by spectraschain What sound advice.....nothing the least bit "wild" about the activities associated with the theme of this board........
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Well, this got way off tangent, now didn't it?
I think what havefuninsun meant by:
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With all that said, do we want any part of that? No we don't. This is about fun and adventure, not about hurt and lawsuits. And I assure you; if you want your swing life to be very private, and you pick your partners by their trustworthiness (as well as other attributes), adding a wild card to the mix completely nixes all that safe planning.
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had nothing to do with whether or not our activities are views as "wild" by some, but rather someone using us to cheat on their spouse adds an element into swinging that we can't control... the hurt and or jealous spouse that could cause at the least drama for us. This drama could range anywhere from a simple angry phone call to physical, emotional, or financial harm to us.
The term "wild card" was used to describe an uncontrollable variable, not a specific life activity.
I'm sure you saw this too, and as you say are just playing the devil's advocate with your above face-value statement.
Mr. WS