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Chicup · 03-19-2007, 02:29 AM

This topic brings up bad memories for me of a certain 'hot wife' thread we had a while back.

I'll just put my thoughts down in a nut shell.

1. Do I think its ethically wrong to swing with cheaters? Yes.

2. Do I feel I'm being a marriage police in thinking this? No, I'm not arresting you just stating my opinion.

3. Do I really care about it? No. Its not something I would be comfortable doing on more than one level, but in a swinging sense the guy (or woman) had already made up their mind to cheat, the only question is who will accommodate them. I'm much less forgiving of the 'hot wifers' due to the seduction aspect of a guy who wasn't really looking for it. This is a guy who may get caught up in the seduction only to feel guilty about it for the rest of his life, or worse ruin someones marriage and drastically alter their future. Its preying on someones weakness.

03-19-2007, 02:29 AM	#41 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Activities with cheating men. Thoughts? This topic brings up bad memories for me of a certain 'hot wife' thread we had a while back. I'll just put my thoughts down in a nut shell. 1. Do I think its ethically wrong to swing with cheaters? Yes. 2. Do I feel I'm being a marriage police in thinking this? No, I'm not arresting you just stating my opinion. 3. Do I really care about it? No. Its not something I would be comfortable doing on more than one level, but in a swinging sense the guy (or woman) had already made up their mind to cheat, the only question is who will accommodate them. I'm much less forgiving of the 'hot wifers' due to the seduction aspect of a guy who wasn't really looking for it. This is a guy who may get caught up in the seduction only to feel guilty about it for the rest of his life, or worse ruin someones marriage and drastically alter their future. Its preying on someones weakness.