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Old 03-18-2007, 11:16 PM   #38 (permalink)
spectraschain
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Default Re: Activities with cheating men. Thoughts?

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Do you consider it to be wrong, immoral and unnatural
Not at all. "or something" would be my stand.
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NOTHING we have ever done before it or since compares to its intensity or vitality enhancing effect on us or our relationship.
Nothing? This is a "religious" experience for you? Is this "the one thing" that you searched for far & wide for through life's journey? The regard that this "lifestyle" is held in by those here is borderline fanatical.
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Cheating just doesn't fit into our philosophy.
This argument no longer encompases "cheating". It's morphed into a question of whether or not this truly is "the only one way to live". You tell me. Am I missing some greater calling that only swinging can deliver? And must I play "according to Hoyle" to derive the full benefit? I recall the words honesty, trustworthiness, judgement... scattered thoughout this thread...

Here we thought it was about sex.

intuition, we've sparred in the past on this very same piece of ground, and I appreciate your insights. I play the devil's advocate, because one can break a leg when falling from a tall horse...
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