[havefuninsun]

I'm a firm believer that what goes around, comes around. Karma is a funny, funny thing. Therefore, while I understand why someone might cheat, and what draws people to think that the grass is greener on the other side, I don't know of anyone who has crossed that line that didn't pay the price for it. And most can't say it was worth it. It's called drama -- and at the end of the day, they wished they didn't have to deal with all that drama.

With all that said, do we want any part of that? No we don't. This is about fun and adventure, not about hurt and lawsuits. And I assure you; if you want your swing life to be very private, and you pick your partners by their trustworthiness (as well as other attributes), adding a wild card to the mix completely nixes all that safe planning.

So for those who don't mind playing with cheating spouses, that's your decision. For those who find playing with cheaters a bad thing, that's (our) decision as well.