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Originally Posted by The Fuse I don't see anything wrong with "judging" their actions... in fact, not doing so is abdicating responsibility, which is what they themselves are doing. They are asking you to throw in with them, to validate them, by not caring about the consequences of their actions to others.
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We could not agree more. Mrs. Fuse has hit the nail squarely on the head. We are the first to admit we "judge" often. When we meet a couple, don't feel the connection and decline to play, we can't call that anything other than "judgement". We make no apologies for this.
We have no tolerance for cheaters. If we chose to play with someone so dismissive of the feelings of a cheating partner's spouse, we would indeed be abdicating repsonsibility. If some feel that is politically incorrect, let the PC Police come chase us down; far better that than wrestling with our own conscience.
R