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Old 03-17-2007, 01:03 PM   #14 (permalink)
Tybee Swing
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Default Re: we had a 3 some. but now it's very complicated for my wife.. need advice please!

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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321
I am concerned about your statement "she managed to get in touch with him and he stopped by her work today.. she's all confused about her feelings." "Managed" sounds like she made a concerted effort to reach him that was beyond the ordinary. And then for him to stop by to see her at work? Why do this? This could jeopardize trust (which sounds like it may already be questioned)
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smpdjd,

Have you and your wife ever discussed swinging with a couple? There is equality in this - you are getting the same thing out of it that she's getting. If you've discussed this before, is she willing or interested in this? The answer to this might be telling.

Best wishes to you!
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