 Re: we had a 3 some. but now it's very complicated for my wife.. need advice please!
"she managed to get in touch with him and he stopped by her work today"
This explains my position. The big question is did you know about this beforehand? My guess is you didn't by the way you posed the statement.
Please keep us informed as to how this turns out. How you handle it and the outcome may help others in the same situation or prevent it all together. I would imagine this sort thing is a big worry for some newbies. It was for us at the very beginning but we have come to realize our marriage and love for each other is so strong that this almost seems impossible. We all know nothing is impossible but we have talked so much about the what ifs that I trust her completely and my instincts. If it were to happen then we didnt have the marriage we thought had. That my friend is where you are at now and the reason you posted. You are in a tough spot and I feel for you. I'm just trying to give you a different perspective and something else to think about instead of the poor girl is excited because it is new.
Likeminds has given the best advice so far and I hope you heed it.
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