 Re: we had a 3 some. but now it's very complicated for my wife.. need advice please!
I have to agree with VegasLee on this one. Some people are not meant to swing and that's OK. My family means more to me than anything, including sex.
We've had conversations before with other couples about women, who really are the more emotional ones, who can't separate love and sex. Don't get me wrong -- Some women do fine with it, and some men have this same trouble, too. Sex does not equal love and there should be no emotions even remotely resembling love with a swing partner.
What I do have after sex with a swing partner is a powerful urge to be with my own spouse. He is the one I love and have feelings for. I always like the men I have sex with, they're funny, they're nice and they're a hell of a sex partner, but that is as far as the feelings go. It's just sex. Sex and making love with my spouse is still better than anything else I've experienced.
Again, in my opinion, if your marriage was as strong as you believe it is, she should have no urge to run and go play with this man one-on-one. She wants your blessings to cheat in my opinion, and that's not good.
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