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Darkblue · 03-17-2007, 11:55 AM

Tell her its a no no, if shes like this now you never know how it will end,she loves you and hes anew toy and she wants to play with him but if she not sure of her feelings, then going one on one will totaly do her head in! too much risk and hurt is lurking around the corner.
I cant get over the odea she called him and met him at work, thats a big red flag and time to put and end to it but be thoughtfull and tell her why and your concerns try to make her see sence without you actualy telling her to stop things,try to make her see that its stupid and for her to say stop..
Hope that makes sence

steve

03-17-2007, 11:55 AM	#10 (permalink)
Darkblue Steve and Susanne Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 229 Location: Germany Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:darkblue	Re: we had a 3 some. but now it's very complicated for my wife.. need advice please! Tell her its a no no, if shes like this now you never know how it will end,she loves you and hes anew toy and she wants to play with him but if she not sure of her feelings, then going one on one will totaly do her head in! too much risk and hurt is lurking around the corner. I cant get over the odea she called him and met him at work, thats a big red flag and time to put and end to it but be thoughtfull and tell her why and your concerns try to make her see sence without you actualy telling her to stop things,try to make her see that its stupid and for her to say stop.. Hope that makes sence steve