The Swingers Board - View Single Post - We had a MFM but now wife getting too attached to the male

VegasLee · 03-17-2007, 11:17 AM

Your wife has found a new toy that is willing to pay attention to her. That is natural but if not controlled right by her it can destroy your relationship.

You two need to step back and ask yourself why you really want to be in this lifestyle. Many look at the relationships that the ones of us have in this Lifestyle and wish to have the same but the truth is MOST people do not have the type of relationship it takes to be in this Lifestyle.

This Lifestyle is not for everyone. It really is not for most. Consider what is more important to you. Getting some on the side or your family and then make the decision that works for you.

03-17-2007, 11:17 AM	#8 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,951 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: we had a 3 some. but now it's very complicated for my wife.. need advice please! Your wife has found a new toy that is willing to pay attention to her. That is natural but if not controlled right by her it can destroy your relationship. You two need to step back and ask yourself why you really want to be in this lifestyle. Many look at the relationships that the ones of us have in this Lifestyle and wish to have the same but the truth is MOST people do not have the type of relationship it takes to be in this Lifestyle. This Lifestyle is not for everyone. It really is not for most. Consider what is more important to you. Getting some on the side or your family and then make the decision that works for you.
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