[VegasLee]

You not wanting to play with a cheating husband is not judging them at all.

Just because someone else does something does not mean it is for you or that you want to do it.

Laura and I do not knowingly play with cheating husbands but we have found out later about someone being a cheating husband that we did play with. If he wants to be a cheating husband that is his business but it does not mean we desire to be involved. Same as we are not into BDSM, not our thing but we don't judge those that are into it.

You stated this Lifestyle is about honesty. To us that means honesty by and for all involved and whether the cheating husband knows it or not his wife he is cheating on is involved. Goes for the ladies also. We see "married" women show up at the club without their husbands. Some have said he is not into this so she goes it alone without telling him. Personally, we don't go there.