Wow! What a selfish lady (using nice terms here
) MrVan and I have ran into couples who are comfortable going on "seperate dates" in the lifestyle and I guess for us as long as they are in agreement of what is going on, then that is okay. However, the people that we know that do this are usually going on seperate dates with the same couple...So for this wife to have sex with men who she knows either in or out of the lifestyle whose wives do not know of this, is wrong. And as Spoo said, she is a homewrecker..And I hate homewreckers. She obviously does not care for anything other than getting her booty call answered. Therefore, if she does not have the respect for the people she is playing with then I do not think I would want to be involved with such a person. I want to know that the people we play with care about the relationship that is there, the marriage that I have with my husband and respect that. Granted these men who are doing this without their wives knowing are doing this to themselves, but I do not understand her concept....
I would think this is a way they participate in the lifestyle but I think she has taken it a step further as far as "cheating."
I look forward to hearing what everyone else has to say.
MrsVan