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Old 03-17-2007, 10:05 AM   #4 (permalink)
oncewere
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Posts: 134
Location: Eastern Washington
Status: couple

oncewere gives some great advice
Default Re: we had a 3 some. but now it's very complicated for my wife.. need advice please!

She's found a new toy, a totally new kind of experience. She wants more but, as twobears said it is hard to separate sex from more serious feelings. You need to talk a lot about this and bringing her to this site could help give her some perspective. After a few more times with different people she may learn that it is the novelty, not the guy. She may need to talk to another woman about this so you could touch base with a couple to talk about swinging and maybe expand her experience base so she isn't hung up on just this one guy.
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