The Swingers Board - View Single Post - We had a MFM but now wife getting too attached to the male

flkeyscouple · 03-17-2007, 08:21 AM

You need to tell her your thoughts. If you are uncomfortable with her meeting him without you, she needs to know you are uncomfortable. Your relationship should always come first and she should abandon the idea once she knows your feelings.

Just remember (and remind her) that everything should move at the pace of the slowest member!

Personally, I won't do any meeting without my hubby... but I know that many others do. I'm sure you'll hear from others, but whatever happens, you both need to be comfortable!!

Good luck.

Mrs. FLKeys

03-17-2007, 08:21 AM	#3 (permalink)
flkeyscouple Sarah&Roger's Female Half Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,160 Location: FL Status: couple-female half Swing Lifestyle Name:floridakeyscouple	Re: we had a 3 some. but now it's very complicated for my wife.. need advice please! You need to tell her your thoughts. If you are uncomfortable with her meeting him without you, she needs to know you are uncomfortable. Your relationship should always come first and she should abandon the idea once she knows your feelings. Just remember (and remind her) that everything should move at the pace of the slowest member! Personally, I won't do any meeting without my hubby... but I know that many others do. I'm sure you'll hear from others, but whatever happens, you both need to be comfortable!! Good luck. Mrs. FLKeys
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