hey all.. so we had this delicious 3 some with a guy.. the first time we'd ever done anything remotley like it..it was a joint decision and we both really liked it.. but my wife and the guy got pretty intense and now she can't stop thinking about him.. so much so that she managed to get in touch with him and he stopped by her work today.. she's all confused about her feelings.. we have kids, been happily married for a long time, truly have a great sex life.. but now she wants to sleep with him one on one and i am very confused about this.. so is she..part of me wants to let her have this experience but I'm afraid she'll want more and it'll turn into an affair and then we have a giant mess on out hands with the kids and all and the other part of me is hurt and jealous and i feel the neanderathal inside me lurking.. it's not as if the guy was a great lover either, far from it.. wouldn't go down on her,it's just that she's been a loyal faithful wonderful wife but now she's let the genie out of the bottle.. not sure what the hell i'm supposed to do.. thoughts?
