The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Am I being played, and does she just want him?

clutch · 03-16-2007, 12:16 AM

Hey itboy,

Don't even know if you're still reading these. But just in case... sometimes things can get confusing...especially around sex and things of the heart.

I've learned to recognize when I'm in the forest, and I know that at that time, it is safe to let others, who are out of the forest, to see the trees for me and to trust their judgement.

And I'm guessing your intuition is telling you something, too, or else you wouldn't have put this situation out on the swingersboard.

So regarding this situation with the other guy that you know, I would definitely back way off.

At the top of this page (or any page on swingersboard) is some different catagories in boldfaced type--one of them being swinger advice. I would show this to your wife and use it as a springboard for some indepth discussion.

And, for down the road, I personally really like MFM, but it's not necessarily for everyone, and, I would say, definitely not appropriate in the case you're describing. And I don't know if I'd do it if both couples weren't all together at the time and all enjoying themselves one way or another together during the mfm.

Best of luck. Study together and talk together.

03-16-2007, 12:16 AM	#22 (permalink)
clutch Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 140 Location: tennessee	Re: 3 Some w/Friend Hey itboy, Don't even know if you're still reading these. But just in case... sometimes things can get confusing...especially around sex and things of the heart. I've learned to recognize when I'm in the forest, and I know that at that time, it is safe to let others, who are out of the forest, to see the trees for me and to trust their judgement. And I'm guessing your intuition is telling you something, too, or else you wouldn't have put this situation out on the swingersboard. So regarding this situation with the other guy that you know, I would definitely back way off. At the top of this page (or any page on swingersboard) is some different catagories in boldfaced type--one of them being swinger advice. I would show this to your wife and use it as a springboard for some indepth discussion. And, for down the road, I personally really like MFM, but it's not necessarily for everyone, and, I would say, definitely not appropriate in the case you're describing. And I don't know if I'd do it if both couples weren't all together at the time and all enjoying themselves one way or another together during the mfm. Best of luck. Study together and talk together.