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Old 03-15-2007, 08:19 PM   #11 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Default Re: Who makes the first move?

I HATE that part of this...

We've actually tried to get things going before and had people either not take a hint or give us a vibe like they weren't interested only to have them ask later why we aren't into them :rollseyes

Maybe they aren't ready...

Maybe they don't find us attractive...

Maybe we are just being too fast - crossed some unseen boundary - are missing a sign...

Maybe they don't like purple...

It can drive a person nuts. Even the old, "so - do you guys want to play?" can let you down. Not because they don't, but because no one is sure they can say "yes". Fortunately, Mrs Spoo has gotten really good at getting the ball rolling. I am not sure what she does, but I can't tell how many times I wound up naked without knowing why...

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