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Originally Posted by Bliss8177 Hey all,
We have tried going through Adult Friend Finder to seek this middle ground, but found that there is a lot of untruth to be found there. So our first effort with online ads went rather poorly. We met with several couples who we met there, but found ourselves in the following situations: 1) Many times we'd find a single guy posing as a couple, or worse yet a married guy who posed as a couple but his wife didn't know.  2) Ended up encountering some psychopathic individuals. (Loong story) or 3) Ended up never actually meeting with the folks we were interested in at all. (Stood up and whatnot.) 4) Quite a few outside our intended age bracket take an interest. We're not putting down those that enjoy the lifestyle as they mature, but for now we'd like to stay in/near our own age bracket. :rollseyes
Due to all of this this we have grown quite discouraged. We know that as a couple we are fine with this lifestyle, becasue we both were involved as swingers when single; and during college we both participated in both MFM, FMF, and MFMF. We're both reasonably experienced in many facets of sexuality, neither of us have ever had a problem with jealosy, and we know what we want, but we can't seem to make it happen. :brickwall
Any thoughts?
Team Bliss8177 |
We found AFF to have too many fakes when we were on it. We then switched to Swing Lifestyle and had some luck there. Are you near the DC area? altplayground.net stretches all over the east coast but there seems to be a concentration of Virginia and Maryland people, especially the DC area. It is a pay only site, so that weeds out many of the fakes.