 Re: Who makes the first move?
Argh... that is so frustrating. I feel for you and Dog! We had an experience this weekend where we were up way too late, but nothing really happened. That was a slightly different situation and I've already moaned about it elsewhere.
But to answer your question, I wouldn't much care whether we were in our own house, the other couples' house, a club, a hotel, or on a beach... if I want to know, I can't keep myself from just asking directly. Subtlety be damned, it's just not in my nature to hold back. You never know -- they might have been wondering the same thing, going nuts because they couldn't remember whether you are a soft-swap couple!
At the very least, I'm sure they would be flattered if you asked... after all, you were playing, so they liked you. It's so easy to say this while I'm not in your shoes... so feel free to ignore me.
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