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VegasLee · 03-11-2007, 01:49 PM

Sorry, i had not checked your profile. I just asked around with some friends if they knew of a place like you had described without giving them a name and they said no. Had not heard of it. Most of them are not into the "nudist" thing. Most places that is much different. Nudists do not tend to like swingers much. We helped fun a nudist place along with the swingers parties at a different location and the nudists ripped us up on their message boards because we are swingers. :surrender

NASCA is a good way to go. It is cheap to join then they will list you.

We found years ago, we never talk about "other" clubs, good or bad. You will find that someone will be unhappy with any club no matter how great it is and some will love some places that you would not let you do go to. Just the way it is. We never compare. Always sell on your own merits no matter what.

We manage one of the largest, oldest and busiest swing parties in the county yet you will find negative posts on the net about the place. Not many but you will find them. Just the way it is. Not all places are for everyone. There is even another place in town that we suggest to some people once we talk to them and can feel that our party is NOT for them. The other place has called us and Thanked us for sending so many people to them. It was people we knew would not be happy with us so why not guide them the right direction. You will not want everyone at your party.

You sound like you have a good thing going. I believe you just need to keep getting the word our there. It takes many, many years before a place does well and you get a lot of people for each party. If you see you are not getting a lot of the locals returning then you will need to look at what you doing because then you have a problem if you can not retain them.

You are also going to find that every four to five years you will have a 50% to 75% turn over in your crowd of regulars. People move, drop out of the lifestyle, divorce, etc. That is not something you can control but it does happen. Half of our crowd is regulars and half is tourists and we have seen that turn over many times in 25 years.

Good luck to you.

03-11-2007, 01:49 PM	#8 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,951 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: What would entice you to attend a party? Sorry, i had not checked your profile. I just asked around with some friends if they knew of a place like you had described without giving them a name and they said no. Had not heard of it. Most of them are not into the "nudist" thing. Most places that is much different. Nudists do not tend to like swingers much. We helped fun a nudist place along with the swingers parties at a different location and the nudists ripped us up on their message boards because we are swingers. :surrender NASCA is a good way to go. It is cheap to join then they will list you. We found years ago, we never talk about "other" clubs, good or bad. You will find that someone will be unhappy with any club no matter how great it is and some will love some places that you would not let you do go to. Just the way it is. We never compare. Always sell on your own merits no matter what. We manage one of the largest, oldest and busiest swing parties in the county yet you will find negative posts on the net about the place. Not many but you will find them. Just the way it is. Not all places are for everyone. There is even another place in town that we suggest to some people once we talk to them and can feel that our party is NOT for them. The other place has called us and Thanked us for sending so many people to them. It was people we knew would not be happy with us so why not guide them the right direction. You will not want everyone at your party. You sound like you have a good thing going. I believe you just need to keep getting the word our there. It takes many, many years before a place does well and you get a lot of people for each party. If you see you are not getting a lot of the locals returning then you will need to look at what you doing because then you have a problem if you can not retain them. You are also going to find that every four to five years you will have a 50% to 75% turn over in your crowd of regulars. People move, drop out of the lifestyle, divorce, etc. That is not something you can control but it does happen. Half of our crowd is regulars and half is tourists and we have seen that turn over many times in 25 years. Good luck to you.
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