[cataryna]

Make up a list of sexy things, one for the women and one for the men. Things such as

Piercings
Tattoos
Bald genital area
Hairy genital area
no tan lines
no panties
no underwear

These are just a few...my lists have 12 different sexual things. You can have as few as you want or as much as you want depending on the size of the party. Women have to find men who have the things on the men's list, and men have to find women who have the things on their list and they can't use the same person twice. It gets the people talking to each other and the naughtier you get with the items the hotter things get.