 Re: I'm in an Uh-Oh and feeling crushed...need some input
Just read the post and all the bleh bleh's after and I would like to get back to the ORIGINAL post. I don't believe this is a swinger issue, because as you had stated you and the MR always did things together. What happened the night in question is that you were passed out and he basically cheated on you, which I'm sure hurts. Of course he was probably grieving and upset and seeking solace, but that doesn't change the fact that you two weren't "playing".
I don't know your relationship with your hubby or your girlfriend, but I do know that in life you can make things better...or worse. How much are these relationships worth to your life? I would guess both quite a bit. I would take that into consideration when things unfold...for yourself, your husband, your girlfriend, and possibly a child who may need you all.
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