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Chicup · 03-08-2007, 05:27 PM

We avoid house parties as the pressure to play can be a lot more agressive than the clubs. If there are 30 couples its easier to blend and easier to escape than if there are 4 couples.

Are you going to find your share of white trash, drug users, mothers of the year (sarcastically), alcoholics, etc in swinging? You betcha. But you will also find people that are straight laced and upstanding. I once had a woman I know joke that if my life were a TV show it would be canceled because it would be too boring to watch, I just smiled and said something like 'you do have a point there' while laughing on the inside a bit.

The issue is it takes a LOT of time and luck to find couples that you really click with if you are not part of the hedonistic crowd. Yea couples dating sucks, yes the clubs can be a waste of time and money, but if you want to do it and don't want horror stories to post on the board, I think its the best way.

03-08-2007, 05:27 PM	#19 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Grossed out, and maybe even burned out? We avoid house parties as the pressure to play can be a lot more agressive than the clubs. If there are 30 couples its easier to blend and easier to escape than if there are 4 couples. Are you going to find your share of white trash, drug users, mothers of the year (sarcastically), alcoholics, etc in swinging? You betcha. But you will also find people that are straight laced and upstanding. I once had a woman I know joke that if my life were a TV show it would be canceled because it would be too boring to watch, I just smiled and said something like 'you do have a point there' while laughing on the inside a bit. The issue is it takes a LOT of time and luck to find couples that you really click with if you are not part of the hedonistic crowd. Yea couples dating sucks, yes the clubs can be a waste of time and money, but if you want to do it and don't want horror stories to post on the board, I think its the best way.