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WildHogs · 03-08-2007, 06:51 AM

We're not trolls. We've posted hundreds of times here under our regular name. We've been in the lifestyle for a few years. We've met a lot of people. We find a great many of them to be the kind of people we aren't that comfortable around. Somebody early on here said something about the party-hard types. That's what we mostly find, unfortunately. It's not that we don't like a party. We like fun. We think we are fun, but we are selective, we don't act like 'hos in front of the general public, we prefer to stay sober. A lot of the swingers we tend to meet aren't so much like this. When we meet the rare couple (maybe it's our area?) that we connect with, they're either fairly far away, or there's some other logistical problem.

Someone asked if the hosts were newbies. The couple who hosted the party have been in the lifestyle for many, many years. They are fairly new to our area but they have lifestyle friends from all over the country and beyond. They seem to basically live for this stuff. Their house reflects that. Nothing wrong with this. It was the situation with their young relatives who were there, and their very casual presentation of the drugs. Also, they seemed to be trying to get their guests drunk (most of these people are more than willing to get drunk with no help). :rollseyes The hosts were passing shooters around every 15-20 minutes and some were "just for the ladies". Seemed like they had a motive.

We knew or knew of some of the couples at that party. They are typical of who's on the adult websites around here. The host couple think of themselves as picky. Imagine who they left out, if they're picky?

Most of them are what we would describe as "rode hard and put away wet". They were all lifestyle regulars. The only newbies there were that one non-smoking couple we got to talk to briefly.

We quit dating through the profiles awhile back. We were tired of the blind dates, wasting all that money and a night out just to meet people we'd rather not have. We have met a few people we really enjoyed that way, and we're still in touch with them, but overall it's a crappy and inefficient way to meet people.

Lee, thanks for your perceptiveness that my post is real, and that swingers such as who we run into (all too often) most definitely do exist. In fact, they thrive.

If at least half of the swingers we meet were like the people who post regularly on this board, we would think we were in hog heaven. As it is, I'd say that people who conduct themselves in a classy manner, are interesting to get to know (to us), and are attractive (to us) are less than 10% of what's available to us. Probably less than 5%. They are very hard to find.

We're tired.

Is our experience unusual?

03-08-2007, 06:51 AM	#16 (permalink)
WildHogs Registered Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 3 Location: the open road Status: couple	Re: Grossed out, and maybe even burned out? We're not trolls. We've posted hundreds of times here under our regular name. We've been in the lifestyle for a few years. We've met a lot of people. We find a great many of them to be the kind of people we aren't that comfortable around. Somebody early on here said something about the party-hard types. That's what we mostly find, unfortunately. It's not that we don't like a party. We like fun. We think we are fun, but we are selective, we don't act like 'hos in front of the general public, we prefer to stay sober. A lot of the swingers we tend to meet aren't so much like this. When we meet the rare couple (maybe it's our area?) that we connect with, they're either fairly far away, or there's some other logistical problem. Someone asked if the hosts were newbies. The couple who hosted the party have been in the lifestyle for many, many years. They are fairly new to our area but they have lifestyle friends from all over the country and beyond. They seem to basically live for this stuff. Their house reflects that. Nothing wrong with this. It was the situation with their young relatives who were there, and their very casual presentation of the drugs. Also, they seemed to be trying to get their guests drunk (most of these people are more than willing to get drunk with no help). :rollseyes The hosts were passing shooters around every 15-20 minutes and some were "just for the ladies". Seemed like they had a motive. We knew or knew of some of the couples at that party. They are typical of who's on the adult websites around here. The host couple think of themselves as picky. Imagine who they left out, if they're picky? Most of them are what we would describe as "rode hard and put away wet". They were all lifestyle regulars. The only newbies there were that one non-smoking couple we got to talk to briefly. We quit dating through the profiles awhile back. We were tired of the blind dates, wasting all that money and a night out just to meet people we'd rather not have. We have met a few people we really enjoyed that way, and we're still in touch with them, but overall it's a crappy and inefficient way to meet people. Lee, thanks for your perceptiveness that my post is real, and that swingers such as who we run into (all too often) most definitely do exist. In fact, they thrive. If at least half of the swingers we meet were like the people who post regularly on this board, we would think we were in hog heaven. As it is, I'd say that people who conduct themselves in a classy manner, are interesting to get to know (to us), and are attractive (to us) are less than 10% of what's available to us. Probably less than 5%. They are very hard to find. We're tired. Is our experience unusual?