That brings up an interesting "twist" on this question. What about a couple where one partner or the other does not enjoy a particular activity (say anal sex) and since they do not enjoy it prohibit their partner from enjoying it. You can't do it with me or anyone else?
I have some friends where the woman does not enjoy be cummed on (facials), and prohibits her man from doing it to others as well (even if the other woman requests it). I don't care for facials myself but far be it for me to tell my friend who does that my man can't cum on her face.
So where does that land. Yes, we are past the idea that MOST limits are based on insecurity. But isn't this a bit extreme? Where is there insecurity in that? Is it an "if he can do this thing with someone else that I won't let him do with me he'll leave me for this other person who will let him do it?"
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