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Old 03-07-2007, 09:29 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: Grossed out, and maybe even burned out?

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Originally Posted by WildHogs

Do any of you ever get to these grossed-out moments in swinging and wonder the same things? Do you ever feel like you're just burned out on the whole thing when things happen that really turn you off, making you not wish to keep meeting people like this? Do you take breaks when this happens, or is this when you simply quit?

Thanks for listening. advice is welcome.
We only got that "grossed out" feeling once, and it was early on, soon after we began swinging. It may have been the second couple we met...ahhh, so long ago I can't remember. It wasn't anything as strange as what you experienced. I just remember Mr LM and I didn't want to see what was before us, it was as if it couldn't really be what it appears, could it? So we hung around until we just had to get out of there.

We didn't feel burnt-out at that point - we had just started down the swinging road and chalked it up to newbieness.

Now, three years later we come across periods of being less enthusiastic about swinging, but it's never because of anything I would describe as a "gross" aspect of swinging.

We've never formally taken breaks from swinging. The breaks come informally and unexpectedly.

LM
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