Re: I'm in an Uh-Oh and feeling crushed...need some input
Wow! I can't believe some of the responses here. Why is this story so hard to believe? It may be a troll, it may not but why so quick to make that call? All you have to do is read some of the threads in here to realize people do stupid, cruel and unbelievable things all the time. Wouldn't it have been better to give the OP a chance to respond a little more and then make your decision? I mean this person wasn't really given the chance. Swingers of all people shouldnt be so quick to judge. Isn't this what some accuse the vanilla world of doing in regards to swingers? Save the speech in how swingers are just like everybody else. We already know they are.
When I first started coming to this site I had all kinds of "out there" questions. Things like scenarios, what if this and what if that. I held back because of things like this. I now know I'm better off trying to find my answers on previous posts which is NOT a good thing for this site. Without new questions and scenarios this site will go nowhere and stagnate with the same out shit over and over. I used to think swingers were more open minded than the population in general. I now know they just as close minded, judgemental, and condescending the rest of the world and in many cases worse. They only difference is swingers like to fuck people other than their SO.
So now I imagine a newbie reading the responses here and not posting a question or situation because they are worried they will be hammered as the OP here was.
Even if this was a troll the way it was handled was wrong because now we will probably never know.
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