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But, I stick with what my wife said...ALL rules and limitations that a couple agrees to, to govern their swinging relationship, other than safe sex (which is a MUST in my book) are based upon insecurity and may limit the exploration of desire.
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I have to disagree with this. Yes MOST limits that couples set are based on securities but many are based soley on preferences.
For instance we have very few rules when it comes to swinging. But two that we do have are
1. We always use condoms and
2. No anal (for me). If hubby wants to do anal on another woman go for it. He isn't big on anal anyway tho so it's not an issue.
Both of those are based on solely on preferences. We choose to always use condoms and I don't care for anal sex.