[roadkingklp]

I agree hang in there. there are many people in this who really want to have fun, not just a quickie.
I've been in this over 30 years, the people have changed, when I started and for a number of years people tried to make friends and have friendly relationships with their swinging, so many today just want to meet get it on and go home, so many of the singles are not just that; really single. We enjoy couples but really my new wife is more my concern( I've beenh in this and have enjoyed many on my own, I want her to experience all the sexual freedom she can handle) if we can find a few really, willing to be friends )single guys) they will get about all she can give them.
We go to the clubs some "the Cottage" we have met a few couples who are very nice, try that, but ultimately, we use Swing Lifestyle quite a bit, but be careful there, on all sites there are the false, pretenders who are just out to tell stories and score, pick people who want to develope a friendship as well, it does not have to always be sex, enjoy, some sites, dinner, dancing, shows, a ball game, you will find out just what they want and if that's what you want then choose well.
Keep the Lifestyle open and honest , but most of all enjoy yourself don't be always the giver !