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transplantdbrit · 03-06-2007, 11:22 AM

Thank you so much for your kind words. To answer a question both of you have asked, yes I have spoken to my husband about it. His reply to not telling me was that he felt very badly at what he had done. Evidently he actually left our bed once the deed was concluded and didn't come back to sleep. I honestly believe him and that fact that it was just a mistake that isn't likely to ever happen again. Unfortunately, it seems my gf may indeed be expecting. Her period is due to start Thursday, but she has been feeling very green for a couple of days now. There are other symptoms of pg as well. I'm nervous and seem to be unable to just move past this right now. Thursday can't get here fast enough! I told her to go the the store and get one of those early (5 days before your period) tests. She is going to but she has said that she is fairly sure she already knows what the result will be, as she already has one child. Honestly, the timing was just too perfect. If she is the woman to give him a child and not me, what the hell do I do? I could not continue my marriage and I know this. The insult would be too great. Could somone please smack me up-side of my head and make me cheer up a tad? My husband has not been reacting very well to my emotions. There have been some very ugly words between us. I have never felt this way, and now I understand why the little green-headed monster can be so strong. Jealousy was never a part of my nature before now and it is throwing me for a loop.

03-06-2007, 11:22 AM	#4 (permalink)
transplantdbrit Active Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 25 Location: kissimmee, florida Status: couple/female half	Re: I'm in an Uh-Oh and feeling crushed...need some input Thank you so much for your kind words. To answer a question both of you have asked, yes I have spoken to my husband about it. His reply to not telling me was that he felt very badly at what he had done. Evidently he actually left our bed once the deed was concluded and didn't come back to sleep. I honestly believe him and that fact that it was just a mistake that isn't likely to ever happen again. Unfortunately, it seems my gf may indeed be expecting. Her period is due to start Thursday, but she has been feeling very green for a couple of days now. There are other symptoms of pg as well. I'm nervous and seem to be unable to just move past this right now. Thursday can't get here fast enough! I told her to go the the store and get one of those early (5 days before your period) tests. She is going to but she has said that she is fairly sure she already knows what the result will be, as she already has one child. Honestly, the timing was just too perfect. If she is the woman to give him a child and not me, what the hell do I do? I could not continue my marriage and I know this. The insult would be too great. Could somone please smack me up-side of my head and make me cheer up a tad? My husband has not been reacting very well to my emotions. There have been some very ugly words between us. I have never felt this way, and now I understand why the little green-headed monster can be so strong. Jealousy was never a part of my nature before now and it is throwing me for a loop.