The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Am I being played, and does she just want him?

THB · 03-04-2007, 01:52 AM

Kudos for wanting to work with your wife on her fantasies, but this scenario sounds all wrong to me. Your feelings (nervous, suspicious) are out of sync with your motives (noble, curious) and those things need to be all in line first before you take the leap of swinging. Your wife needs to check her motives and feeling too, and the TWO of you need to be in sync.

Does that sound complicated? Yup. It is complicated. That's why caution is so important.

Swinging is a liberating, exciting, fun experience, but only if everyone is on the same page. Good luck to you both.

03-04-2007, 01:52 AM	#12 (permalink)
THB Registered Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 6 Location: Baker City, Oregon Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:THB	Re: 3 Some w/Friend Kudos for wanting to work with your wife on her fantasies, but this scenario sounds all wrong to me. Your feelings (nervous, suspicious) are out of sync with your motives (noble, curious) and those things need to be all in line first before you take the leap of swinging. Your wife needs to check her motives and feeling too, and the TWO of you need to be in sync. Does that sound complicated? Yup. It is complicated. That's why caution is so important. Swinging is a liberating, exciting, fun experience, but only if everyone is on the same page. Good luck to you both.