I will go back to my original answer. It depends on the couple. I know plenty of couples where the female is bi and has no interest in men other than her husband but enjoys playing with other women. So being with other men is not one of her desires/fantasies but being with other women is.
The male has no desire to be with other males or have his wife with other males but it is not an insecurity issue. That said having a 3some with another woman satisfies both of their desires/fantasies and leaves no one out.
On the other hand you may have a couple where yes the woman is bi but she has just as much desire to be with other men as she would to be with other women. The only thing holding her back is that her husband is too insecure to allow it. But while he has no desire personally to be with other MEN, he does want to be with other women so he sees a MFF threesome as a pefect answer to HIS problem. He gets to be with other women and she does too.
I guess the simplest way to explain my logic is what's good for the goose is good for the gander. If he doesn't want her to be with someone of the opposite sex then he shouldn't be allowed to be with someone of his opposite sex either. So if she can't be with other men he can't be with other women. Where does this leave them? Same goes if she can be with other women then he should be able to be with other men (if he chooses and some do). If he doesn't want to be with other men then that is beside the point so long as he has that option. Make sense?
He can be with other women so she should have the option open to her to be with other men.
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