Re: 3 Some w/Friend I agree with evertone else, except for one thing... THIS TRAIN WRECK HAS ALREADY HAPPENED!
It sounds as if your wife has already been "entertaining" your "friend" and figures if she can get your "OK" to do him alone it will justify the whole matter in her mind.
I think I'd confront her about what has been happening at these "drop bys", and I'll bet she spills the beans, she doesn't care about the other wife, and neither does he |