[jtboy]

Good to know my concerns aren't an overexaggeration or an excessive analysis of the situation...as I have a tendency to do. I was kinda looking for a more outside-the-box answer from a more experienced person. Not to say that you're reply will go ignored, because I do thank you for it...but I already saw that. I was hoping that someone could see something that I didn't, because I am concerned and open-minded about satisfying her fantasy, but at the same time have this overwhelming need to ensure, how do you say, protection of the true sanctity of my marriage (because to me the marriage is not so much about the sex as it is the love, and I understand that is not how everyone else in the world views it...as it is, the majority view the two as inseperable.)