It's unfair because one partner is being forced to give up their fantasies because of the other partners insecurities.
Who said every women involved in swinging (or in 3somes with another women for that matter) actually wants to play with other women? Obviously they all don't as we've seen here.
I, for one, agree that there is a double standard when it comes to male bisexuality. But that wasn't part of your original question, now was it?
So back to your original question. If a couple swings only with single bisexual women because THE GUY is insecure about letting his wife have sex with another man. Then yes it's unfair no matter what she gets to do with the other woman. He is getting his cake and eating it tooo... where's hers?
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