Good question but since I can only answer for myself I'm going to get on a bit of a
but remember just my opinion and my point of view.
First of all I am like prettylady...99% straight and 1% bi. When we first started going to the club I had issue with a lot of the ladies that would take it upon themselves to feel me up on the dance floor or try to drag me out to dance with them. I think now that I am more well known where we go and have learned how to deal with it I don't get that as much. Do I dance with ladies?...Yes occasionally, when it feels right, when I am already out there maybe with a guy or Spoo and we split off. I also see pretty many guys dancing at our club. You don't have to dance great or even good...no one really cares just get out there and bump and grind with your girl (or any girl) it's sexy, fun, and flirty!
I also get tired of the male bashing of how bad they are at this and that so us women turn bi to get everything we want.
I like men...the way they smell, their stong arms, their sexy winks and looks. I love it when a guy isn't afraid to dance and in the lifestyle there are more like that then they are getting credit for. Now the foreplay issue...well I've had about 50/50 here, I prefer it but I'm not going to run to a female if I don't get it. Chance are if things are lacking there we just won't play again. :rollseyes
So the bottom line to your question
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Originally Posted by arvcpl
Is female bisexuality in swingers so common because women don't get enough foreplay from men?
Do some women go to parties so they can dance and flirt and touch other women to get turned on while the men watch and talk about sports? Then when women real horny they have sex with men?
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I don't think so but then I can't answer for everyone. From what I've seen more women are flirty with the men then the women at our club.
I also have to agree with prettylady on this too about men watching and talking sports...I love Football and other than loving to dance as much as possible at the club I'd pick the pool table and game time talk over hanging with the ladies any day. Sorry girls I'm just that way, nothing wrong if your who you are.
Also, I'm pretty much horny all the time and will take a man over a woman any day. I don't just get horny because I am making out with a woman and then want to have sex with a man.
Mrs Spoomonkey