[WesternSwing]

From our experience... First, Mrs. WS is truly bi, but she is what she calls "selectively-bi", meaning her strike zone with women is smaller then her strike zone with men. She definitely is attracted sexually to wider variety of men then she is women.

We have found women that run the gamut from fully bi to just (as you said) dance with other women at the club. Some women like to kiss other women, some like to fondle, some like full-blown sex with them.

But, also in our experience, most bisexual women are like Mrs. WS, meaning they can take it or leave it when it comes to having sex with another woman. It is not THE reason we are in the lifestyle (although it was a factor of why we first got into it). As she says, she loves dick. The bisexual play is fantastic for her, but if another woman is not, or she is not attracted to the other woman sexually (or visa-versa), then no big deal. It's not the be-all-end-all of sex for her. It is simply part of it. When it happens, great. When it doesn't, no big deal.

Mr. WS