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iapr · 02-27-2007, 08:34 PM

Hmmm, I've never given thought that female bisexuality in the lifestyle may be due to male inadequacy but since you mentioned it, now I will have to have some real sef confidence issues

I would imagine the reasons for female bisexuality are as varied as the numbers of female bisexuals but you do pose an interesting question. Mrs iapr describes herself as 95% straight so she does not fall into the catagory of overtly bisexual but has found some limited amount of female contact to be acceptable if not pleasurable. Perhaps both you and sexcupid bring up some possible answers. As sexcupid brought up women are soft and cuddly and have a light gentle touch as well as they also like to be touched and respond to touch whereas guys are..well guys. Maybe a lot of guys just don't have the soft gentle caress that a lot of wome like. Another factor may be women may enjoy the touching just for the sake of touching whereas a man will invariably want it to progress to sex. (men are often a goal oriented bunch and worship efficiency above all else

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You may have some valid points in that at a lot of club parties the women are out dancing and frolicking with each other while the guys are back at the tables talking about guy stuff and enjoying the show. Perhaps there is something for everyone in female/female foreplay. The women can dance and feel each other up and get all hot and bothered while the guys are somewhat off the hook and can talk football for awhile and then indulge their visual natures by watching the gals and then when everyone is all ready they can all get down to business so to speak.

As a male I hate to say that female bisexuality is a direct result of men dropping the ball but lets face it, women are nicer to look at, softer to touch and have more sensuous and touchy-feely natures than your garden variety man. Women are often less threatening to other women (and to their husbands too for that matter) than are other men. If a woman comes up and wants to dance with a woman and maybe even get a little touchy-feely with her it is less threatening than if a male were to do the exact same thing.

02-27-2007, 08:34 PM	#3 (permalink)
iapr Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 641 Location: State of bliss Status: couple	Re: A question about bi women Hmmm, I've never given thought that female bisexuality in the lifestyle may be due to male inadequacy but since you mentioned it, now I will have to have some real sef confidence issues I would imagine the reasons for female bisexuality are as varied as the numbers of female bisexuals but you do pose an interesting question. Mrs iapr describes herself as 95% straight so she does not fall into the catagory of overtly bisexual but has found some limited amount of female contact to be acceptable if not pleasurable. Perhaps both you and sexcupid bring up some possible answers. As sexcupid brought up women are soft and cuddly and have a light gentle touch as well as they also like to be touched and respond to touch whereas guys are..well guys. Maybe a lot of guys just don't have the soft gentle caress that a lot of wome like. Another factor may be women may enjoy the touching just for the sake of touching whereas a man will invariably want it to progress to sex. (men are often a goal oriented bunch and worship efficiency above all else ) You may have some valid points in that at a lot of club parties the women are out dancing and frolicking with each other while the guys are back at the tables talking about guy stuff and enjoying the show. Perhaps there is something for everyone in female/female foreplay. The women can dance and feel each other up and get all hot and bothered while the guys are somewhat off the hook and can talk football for awhile and then indulge their visual natures by watching the gals and then when everyone is all ready they can all get down to business so to speak. As a male I hate to say that female bisexuality is a direct result of men dropping the ball but lets face it, women are nicer to look at, softer to touch and have more sensuous and touchy-feely natures than your garden variety man. Women are often less threatening to other women (and to their husbands too for that matter) than are other men. If a woman comes up and wants to dance with a woman and maybe even get a little touchy-feely with her it is less threatening than if a male were to do the exact same thing.