My thoughts? Please roll out the boulder of salt to take with the following commentary.
Part of it is curiosity. Most women have a lighter touch, softer hands and skin, ect. than a man. I know what your're thinking....duh!
Anyway, as far as the touching, for me it just feels nice (one or two times that it has happened...it's been years though). Not sure how comfortable I am at this time exploring it any further, I just like men too much. *lmao*
Also, I have a real issue exploring this issue at a club or party, or even with my partner present. No, I'm not overly neurotic...I just don't want to feel like I'm putting on a show or being put on display while I explore something I'm curious about. I want to enjoy myself when/if it happens, not be self concious about what I may not be doing right, are we at a good angle the guys can see what's going on, ect.
Now, time to hop up on the soapbox (please clear a spot for when I fall off)!
It seems to be more socially acceptable for women to play with each other and even encouraged. Most mens fantasies involve them and 2-20 women to service them and to play with each other. *lmao* And that's ok...however, let a woman say she wants 20 guys to bang her in a night?
For example, you see two nice looking women walking down the street holding hands while they chat. Do you wonder where else they are willing to touch each other? Have they? Do they? What are they willing to do? Or mayby just a simple, "that's hot!"
Now, what about two men walking down the street holding hands? Most people probably just jump to the conclusion that they are gay, maybe think "ew!" and move on.
Oh lordy, I do love double standards.
IMOH (and that's all it is), girl/girl fantasies, play, illusions, ect. are more encouraged and overtly sexualized.
/soapbox
Now to veer back to the OP, obviously your boundaries need to be made clear to whoever you are playing with. If you meet up with other couples whose females are only interested in kissing or caressing as a warm up to playing with the male halves of the couples...great. Just do what it is you/she is comfortable with.
Sorry if I got off on a bit of a tanget,
Maria
