 Re: Now What?
The issue here has nothing to do with hard dicks or the lack there of. This is all an issue of comfort, chemistry and compatability. The reasons you had three separate bad times is that you forced yourselves into it.
You two and this other couple are not clicking and you keep going back trying to make it happen and the chemistry is just not there. It is very common to not have the chemistry needed to have an enjoyable encounter. The hardest part of swinging with couples as a couple is to find the right people where all 4 click. You have to just let the mood of the moment determine where things are going to go. If you try and set a goal and force yourselves into achieving that goal you will be disappointed every time.
If you just go with the flow and let the mood be your guide you will have less encounters but they will be very natural, uplifting and enjoyable. When it does happen you will be amazed at how natural and easy it is.
Keep getting out and meet people. Don't be afraid to say it was nice to meet you but this is all the further it is going to go. There will be dry spells from time to time but then there will also be times you just meet someone and the majic takes over.
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