The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Light-Polyfidelity-Swinging???

TheDeal · 02-23-2007, 01:49 AM

Wow, although allot of people seem to like the idea, few think it could work. The roadblocks I thought I would find such as, couples that want close friends with benefits, but don't want to limit themselves, or couples that just want as many different couples as possible have not been as prevalent a problem. The biggest issue seems to be finding 4 people that are all equally attracted to each other. That one really sucks! My wife and I want to do this together, not one taking one for the team. My wife is very attractive, both inside and out. One of my fears is us getting with a couple and the wife is just "willing" to play with me because she and her SO like my wife. I have always had a hangup on feeling attractive to the opposite sex. I have been told many times that I am, but if I do not feel like the other side is interested, then I will not play. Jeez, it's like I'm single again.

Oops, sorry for the rant there!

02-23-2007, 01:49 AM	#22 (permalink)
TheDeal Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 82 Location: Texas Status: Couple	Re: Light-Polyfidelity-Swinging??? Wow, although allot of people seem to like the idea, few think it could work. The roadblocks I thought I would find such as, couples that want close friends with benefits, but don't want to limit themselves, or couples that just want as many different couples as possible have not been as prevalent a problem. The biggest issue seems to be finding 4 people that are all equally attracted to each other. That one really sucks! My wife and I want to do this together, not one taking one for the team. My wife is very attractive, both inside and out. One of my fears is us getting with a couple and the wife is just "willing" to play with me because she and her SO like my wife. I have always had a hangup on feeling attractive to the opposite sex. I have been told many times that I am, but if I do not feel like the other side is interested, then I will not play. Jeez, it's like I'm single again. Oops, sorry for the rant there!