[lurkergirl]

I hit mine around 35, and most of my female friends and relatives all seemed to hit (or be hitting) theirs right around that time as well. It was an absolutely terrible time for me, as my honey and I have rarely in the past 6 years moved above the "once a month" average.

You (and all you fellow posters) are incredibly lucky to have supportive and active partners. In the past 5 years, I've watched a wife's "peak" wreck 3 marriages and make 1 stronger. You are all an incredible community, Kudo's to all of you!